How can I get from this to this?

She didn't say she was fat she said she has some wobbly areas...not everyone is perfectly toned...she wants to slim down just ONE or 2 sizes I think that's fine! So anywho...I see what you mean about your bone structure, but since it is similar to the girl in the photo, I think you would still look nice slimming down a teensy bit. An 8 is a nice "regular size" and some of my jeans are an 8. You look really pretty and happy in the pics tho and you dress really kool :) I know what you mean by wobbly areas, I have them too and I am skinny on top and big hips down below...ARG! At least you are well proportioned. I am an XS up top and a Medium down low. ARG! Well good luck it feels great to work towards a new shape...I am doing it too! :)